ek ajnabi ko hum apna dost samaz vaithe.

Phool se pucha gaya "tune to di hai Khushbu tujhe kya mila?" Phool ne kaha- "dene k badle lena to vyapar hai, jo dekar bhi kuch na mange vahi to PYAAR hai."
Aap ko pata hai ki dunia ki sub se khubsurat cheez dekhi nahi jati,mehsoos ki jati hai, jaise hawa ka jhonka, shehad ki mithaas, jaise phoolon ki khushbu, jaise pyar, Jante ho sub se khubsurat ehsas kya hai, Aap ka Sath...


Har kali tujhse khushbu udhar maange, aaftab tujhse nur udhar maange,
rab kare tu dosti aisi nibhaye ke log mujhse teri dosti udhar maangea

Kash aesa ho k apni DOSTI qayam rahay Roz hum milen aur tashnagi qayam rahay Lafz khushbu he rahen teri samaat k lia Meri baton main humesha tazgi qayam rahay




tumhara dost

Zindgi mein har shaks se thi dosti ki chah hamein.

Na jane kiyun ek ajnabi ko hi hum apna dost samaz vaithe.

Naam bhi na tha malum uska na thi usse pehchan koyee,

Dooriyan to thi usse, par phir bhi hum use apne karib samaz vaithe.

Voh insaan tha sabse alag sabse juda magar,

Kuch khaas to tha usmein, Jo hum use mahaan samaz vaithe.

Uske soch uske vichar the hamse alag,

Na samaz to hum hi the jo use hum khayal samaz vaithe.

Huyee thi jab usse pehli mulakat hamari,

Uski pehli mulakat ko hi hum dosti ki shuruat samaz vaithe.

Hum hi usko kabhi jaan na sake the shayad, jo uske chand lamhon

Ko uski pehchan samaz vaithe.

Ek din waqt ne darmiyan faansle bhada diye,

Hum uski khamoshiyon ko uski ranjish samaz vaithe.

Hum hi shayad usko kabhi jaan na sake the shayad,

Jo uske swabhiman ko usko abhimaan samaz vaithe.

Nafrat si hone lagi hai hamein ab na jaane kiyun,

Kassoor to hamara tha,Or usko gunehgaar samaz vaithe.

Ehsaas hua hamein jab apni hi galtiyon ka,

Nafrat mita di aur khudh ko kassoorbar samaz vaithe,

Kuch to sikha yaaro uski berukhi se 'Tanhan' reh kar,

Ke kiyun ek ajnabi ko hum apna dost samaz vaithe.

ok 


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A Door knocks twice. insider asks--who is there... ans was : its OPPOTUNITY" insider tels ,you are wrong becouse oppotunity never knocks twice
रात यों कहने लगा मुझसे गगन का चाँद,
आदमी भी क्या अनोखा जीव होता है!
,उलझनें अपनी बनाकर आप ही फँसता
और फिर बेचैन हो जगता, न सोता है।

Sex Education in India

A while ago there was a debate in some internet forum regarding sex education in India. I posted my view back then. Today accidentally I found that, so posting here:

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Here we are confusing and mixing three different topics,
1. Sex Education
2. Sexuality and its bad consequences.
3. Sex Education before universal education or education to all.
and filtering only that which fulfills the campaigner's own stand point.

I personally don't consider the point 3 as a valid point at all, which is promoted by most of our friends here.
It is like, no air port building unless everyone has access to the road.
Is that valid?
Sure, everyone must have access to the road, but that cannot be an excuse to prevent building an airport. In fact it falls under Fallacious Arguments in logic science.

Now getting to the topic;

* What sex education means?

In simple words, sex education means "preparing a child/person for an active sexual life before that child actually involve in it".
Isn't that a proper definition of education? Don't we teach a pilot before asking to fly? Don't we teach an engineer before sending to a workshop?


* Why sex education is needed?

Here we have to understand and accept a very vital fact that we all get into this act of active sexual life of 30-40 years. We don't let someone do our minor household jobs without knowing it; but surprise! We ask people to go for sexual life without knowing it at all. What an irony! We act like it doesn't even exist. We expect people know it by themselves. How?
The pretext of HIV given by the government to introduce "Sex Education" is lame. Introduce it without any pretext or excuse.


* Does sex education promote perverted sexual behavior among students?

What can be more absurd than this?
Does 'understanding' something corrupts it or 'not understanding' it?
We have more perversion now, when we don't have a proper education.
Sure enough, the western countries too have the problem of rapes and HIV, so do we. Here we have to consider one major fact that when we read the data of sexual-offence among countries, we are tends to compare almost accurate data from developed countries with heavily under-reported data of ours.
The ultimate sexual-offence of rape is relatively rare; the biggest problem is eve-teasing. A woman cannot go out after certain hours, a woman cannot travel in buses, trains etc, without being harassed.
Sure enough, this type of eve teasing is specific to the countries lacking proper sex-education. Our friends living in developed countries can give a testimony of that.
I don't think this type of perversion (as, eve-teaching) is because of 'sex education', on a contrary it is because of 'lack of proper sex education'.

I am all for finding wrongs in the syllabus design, and making it proper for local needs. But discarding the whole idea on that base is illogical. It is like "I'll jump into water only when I know how to swim". You don't learn swimming without getting into the water. Sure, no need to jump into the ocean at first attempt, start it from a pool.


* Is proper sex-education against India Culture? Does it harm Indian Culture?

This excuse is given again and again, whenever there is a talk about Sex and Sexual behaviour.
How educations harm something?
To my understanding, if properly knowing something harms and eradicates some old myths; then myth should go, not the facts and education.
Do I need to remind that we wrote Kamasutra? What is that book other than Sex-Education?
How do we define Indian-Culture? This topic can take long discussion itself.


PS: I am appalled to see the campaigner giving example of Arabian countries, Pakistan etc.
Is that our benchmark?
Is that our future orientation?
Is that where we want to lead our country and societies?


Well, that’s my personal view, agree or not to agree is up to the individuals. But the bottom line is; knowing something, which we are bound to get into, is logical, beneficial, and good for individuals and society.

in reference to:

"Sex Education in India"
- Sex Education in India : santosh gairola blogs on sulekha, General blogs, santosh gairola blog from india (view on Google Sidewiki)

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Is Duniya Mein Hum Apni Pehchan Dunda Karte Hain,
Apni Galio Mein Hum Apna Makan Dunda Karte Hain,

Tute Huye Tinke Ki Tarh Bikhari Hai Zindagi,
Aaj Hum Apne Labo Per Muskaan Dunda Karte Hain,

Hmare Man Me Ek Kasak Si Utha Karti Hai,
Jab Apne Har dard Me Hum Apne Armaan Dunda Karte Hain,



Manzil Ke Talash Main Raasto Pe Bhatake Hain,
Raaste Ko Manzil Samjhnaa Hum Ne Sikhaa Hai..

Khushi Kii Talash Mei Ghamgeen Hone Se Behtar..
Ghum Me Se Khushi DhundhNaa Hum Ne Sikha Hai..

Khud Ko Jala Kar Dusro Ko Rasta Dikha Naa..
Hum Ne Ye Andaz Jalti Shamaa Se Sikha Hai

Is Mushkil Safar Main Aate Hain Swaal Kai,
“Zindagani” Tere Har Swaal Pe Muskurana Sikha Hai .



Shayad Khatam Ho Chuke Hai Mere Ehsaas,
Kuch Aur Ab Kaha Nahi Jayenga humse

Shayad Tuut Gaye Hai Wo Sab Mere Khawab,
Koi Aur Khawab Dekha Nahi Jayenga humse

Dard Mile itnay k saha nahi nahi jata,
AB is safar pe Ab Aur Chala Nahi Jayenga mujhsese

Milay hain ITne Ankho Me Aansu,
Ab Zindgi Me Muskuraya Nahi Jayenga mujhse

Ek Silsila Mere Or Dard Ke Beech Hota Raha
Dard Hudd Ki Aakhiri Hudd Tak Hota Raha,

Main Muskurati Rahi, Dard Rota Raha
Dard Hudd Ki Hudd Tak Hota Raha,

Baat Bhee Ye Ajeeb Hi Hai,
Dard Ke Sir Per Saleeb Si Hai

Zindgi Se Kya Maangiye Janaab
Zindgi Bhee To Gareeb Si Hai,

Issliye Mere Or Zindgi Ke Beech Samjhota Raha
Dard Hudd Ki Hudd Tak Hota Raha

Main Muskurati Rahi,Dard Rota Raha

in reference to:

"Is Duniya Mein Hum Apni Pehchan Dunda Karte Hain,Apni Galio Mein Hum Apna Makan Dunda Karte Hain, Tute Huye Tinke Ki Tarh Bikhari Hai Zindagi,Aaj Hum Apne Labo Per Muskaan Dunda Karte Hain, Hmare Man Me Ek Kasak Si Utha Karti Hai,Jab Apne Har dard Me Hum Apne Armaan Dunda Karte Hain,   Manzil Ke Talash Main Raasto Pe Bhatake Hain,Raaste Ko Manzil Samjhnaa Hum Ne Sikhaa Hai.. Khushi Kii Talash Mei Ghamgeen Hone Se Behtar..Ghum Me Se Khushi DhundhNaa Hum Ne Sikha Hai.. Khud Ko Jala Kar Dusro Ko Rasta Dikha Naa..Hum Ne Ye Andaz Jalti Shamaa Se Sikha Hai Is Mushkil Safar Main Aate Hain Swaal Kai,“Zindagani” Tere Har Swaal Pe Muskurana Sikha Hai .     Shayad Khatam Ho Chuke Hai Mere Ehsaas,Kuch Aur Ab Kaha Nahi Jayenga humse Shayad Tuut Gaye Hai Wo Sab Mere Khawab,Koi Aur Khawab Dekha Nahi Jayenga humse Dard  Mile itnay k saha nahi nahi jata,AB  is safar pe Ab Aur Chala Nahi Jayenga mujhsese Milay hain ITne Ankho Me Aansu,Ab Zindgi Me Muskuraya Nahi Jayenga mujhse Ek Silsila Mere Or Dard Ke Beech Hota RahaDard Hudd Ki Aakhiri Hudd Tak Hota Raha, Main Muskurati Rahi, Dard Rota RahaDard Hudd Ki Hudd Tak Hota Raha, Baat Bhee Ye Ajeeb Hi Hai,Dard Ke Sir Per Saleeb Si Hai Zindgi Se Kya Maangiye JanaabZindgi Bhee To Gareeb Si Hai, Issliye Mere Or Zindgi Ke Beech Samjhota RahaDard Hudd Ki Hudd Tak Hota Raha Main Muskurati Rahi,Dard Rota Raha"
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